❓️How to Deal with: "Mama, bakit bawal ako? Pero sila pwede?" 😭

🫣Paano nga ba i-explain sa anak mo na ang inyong set of “rules” ay iba sa rules ng ibang parents para sa kanilang anak? EXAMPLE: Nasa mall kayo at sinabihan mo ang anak mo ng “Oh we’re just looking and no buying ha.” Tapos may makita silang ibang bata na, umiiyak, nagtatantrums hanggang sa bumigay ang kanilang parents at binili ang gusto ng anak nila. Tapos nakita ito ng anak mo at tinanong ka ng, “Bakit sila pwede?” PAANO MO ITO IPAPALIWANAG SA KANILA? 🤔

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No, but for real, though, I would say it really depends on your style, your husband style, what you both believe and agree on, and what you would like to do better than what your parents did. Also, of course use what worked from your parents. At the end of the day, what to tell the kid?as long as it doesn’t tear down the other parent, the other kids, and points your kid to Jesus. And of course, to obeying you and trusting you more ha ha ha ha ha (which is essentially training for trusting in God)

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