Paano mo babalansehin na masabi mo honestly yung gusto mong sabihin kay hubby kahit alam mong masasaktan sya?

Dito pumapasok yung timing. Timing sa mood niya as in unang una mong iconsider. Kasi kung mej mainit ang ulo or bad mood o kaya naman ay mukhanh wala siya sa mood makipagusap, better not to push muna. Wait for the perfect timing. Kasi it adds up kapag hindi maganda yung mood tapos ang topic mo is something na baka feeling niya e negative for him. Kaya mo yan Sis!

It depends on his mood. If I see na good mood sya, I initiate small talks first until mapunta ung topic sa gusto kong sabihin. Test the waters kumbaga. Mahirap din minsan kasi ngbabago pa din mood kahit na akala mo okay siya at first. So sometimes, you can also tell him in advance na may gusto kang sabihin na importante.

I think its better to start it in a positive thought first , explain it to him ng maayos kung bakit nangyari yun at bakit mo ginawa . Expect that he will be hurt in a way its just normal just think na maayos pa din yun kahit ano man mangyari . Its just a matter of good communication between you and your husband .

It depends sa context nung sinasabi mo na masasaktan siya. Is it something you did or something about your husband na you want to point out? If it is the lattee, phrase it in a way na objective ang dating. Also, make sure na ang tone ng voice mo ay hindi agressive para he won't feel na inaattack mo siya.

My husband knows that I'm a very straightforward person and it's hard for me to hide or sugarcoat what I really feel. So if there's something I need to say, I tell him directly. He knows naman na whatever I tell him, that's out of good will lagi regardless kung may masasaktan or wala.