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Ok, my hub don’t wanna keep the this baby no matter what, suppose to go for my appt for scan and stuff for abortion, but reschedule. He was not very happy and insist of doing it even if the baby grow bigger, by then I go for my appt I’m about + - 8 weeks . My appt is only for scan and counseling. Then can book for another appt for abortion . 😭 I’m really damn pissed and sad that I can’t keep and save this baby of mine in me . Legit damn fucked up. Is there anyone out there have the same situation as me ?

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Pls keep it. There are many couples who want badly and still cannot get one. Financial wise, can never be ready or comfortable. Just have to adjust own expectations. Take care.

List out reasons how you can support this baby yourself and be firm about it!!! Come what may, you’ll be able to draw strength when you see your baby smile. Don’t give up!

4y ago

I list out alr , but no use. Hub say it’s not easy . As this is my 3rd pregnancy .

Please don't abort the baby. What's the reason he doesn't want to keep the baby? Do you have any other child?

4y ago

Yap, I have 2 kids now . And this is my 3rd pregnancy

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please don’t abort if you don’t want to. talk to your husband and let him understand your stand.

4y ago

Told him how I actually feel , but he insist of having an abortion as this is my 3rd pregnancy & we have finical problem.

Feel sorry for you and your unborn baby

Is this your second child?

4y ago

Oh dear. What if you ask him why you should go through the pain and trauma of abortion and he doesn't need to go through anything. Shouldve discussed to prevent any pregnancies if he doesnt want anymore. It is fair that he is happily doing it and then do not wanna be responsible for the baby.