Now that we have a baby, it seems it's the only thing my husband wants to talk to me about. We seem to have lost our previous spark. How do you reignite your previous relationship with a baby in the middle?

You know there are men who take as long as 3, 4 years after the birth of the baby to actually bond with them, and do most of the talking about the baby. My husband though loved and cuddled the baby but for a few nano seconds and would be back to his own world. Only now, when my kid is 6, he has started bonding with him. But, I understand what you are trying to say. And I guess, you can get the spark back by dressing up for him. Doing something special for him so that he acknowledges that you are taking efforts to gain his attention. And when he knows that he would follow you to whatever you do.