How to overcome in-law problems?

REPLY FROM EVONNE: I hear your desire to rebuild your connection with your in-law. I hope your in-law hear your good intent too and understand your perspective. They may want to be understood and be able to help. Sometimes it can be helpful to take some time out to calm yourself and reflect on the pattern of interaction that is causing the difficulty. I often see that both parties are fighting to be understood and heard. When you feel understood, then you will feel less upset and defensive. If the difficulty is too much and the same negative pattern of communication keeps happening, then you might want to consider getting a family therapist to support your family.