How to overcome in-law problems?

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How to avoid or solve the conflict with parents in law when still stay together in their house (failed apply bto) ?e.q : i don't give chocolate to my daughter cause she is still cough but their grandparents give chocolate because my daughter want it and throw her tanthrum..i let them cause i don't wanna make conflict..how to make them respect about my rules to my daughter? Thank you..

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REPLY FROM OUR THERAPIST AMBER: It can get tricky trying to establish rules with your in laws, because you may be worried about the impact of boundaries on the family relationship. Nevertheless, healthy relationships have boundaries and these can be done respectfully. At times, grandparents giving in could be their way of showing love, and they could be unaware of the unintended consequences. I would suggest having a conversation with them that involves sharing your understanding about their difficulties. Share with them about your concerns of your daughter having a cough. Then share your wish to help them build a closer bond with your child. Next, you could invite them to collaborate with you on ways they can build this relationship. For example, if your child enjoys looking at picture books, they could look at picture books together. Because your daughter has learnt that her grandparents will give in when she insists, help your in-laws prepare for likely tantrums (which is normal

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