How to overcome in-law problems?

REPLY FROM OUR THERAPIST AMBER: It can get tricky trying to establish rules with your in laws, because you may be worried about the impact of boundaries on the family relationship. Nevertheless, healthy relationships have boundaries and these can be done respectfully. You’re off to a great start because you are understanding their perspective and challenges in engaging with a young child, and are also looking at ways to allow them to bond with your daughter. At times, grandparents giving in could be their way of showing love, and they could be unaware of the unintended consequences. I would suggest having a conversation with them that involves sharing your understanding about their difficulties. Then share your wish to help them build a closer bond with your child. Next, you could invite them to collaborate with you on ways they can build this relationship. For example, if your child enjoys looking at picture books, they could look at picture books together. Because your daughter h