Husband’s attitude

Not sure if I’m being over sensitive but I always feel that my husband talks more politely to his family and friends as compared to how he talks to me. Is it because we’re a couple already so there’s no need for formality? Not saying he doesn’t respect me but I would prefer if sometimes he speaks in a nicer tone. Is your spouse like that too?

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I think it's a natural progression because it's tiring to keep up the verbal filter with someone you are comfortable with and are around all the time. Is he more polite to his siblings too? If you feel uncomfortable please let him know you feel hurt by what he says, it will take time but he may slowly adjust his level back with enough prompts (not nagging tho).

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