stop at 1. normal?

Is it normal for me to conclude that I should stop at only one child? Cause my husband believes 1) that preggies should learn to control their cravings and shouldnt be be entertained. 2) mummies post and pre natal depression does not exist; as they are not closed with their relationship to God? 3) child is forever clingy to mummy, and daddy feels that nothing can be done. Thus he cannot try to make the child involved with his presence.

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Sorry to say but your husband is full of bullshit. Why is he even married and hold the title of Family Man with that kind of theory? If he still does not realise that parenthood is a shared responsibility and dont want to make the effort to learn more about parenting, you can just stop at 1. A leopard will never change its spot. What for have so many kids with him when his mindset is like that? You are the one who will have a very hard time. It takes a whole village to raise a child. When it comes to have sex, both do tgt then when baby appear suddenly everything push to the mother to handle.

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