bad mil...

Never see such a bad mil before! Yesterday my hub told her to take care more on the baby as i have injured my back. Then this morning, she complained her wrist pain. And just throw baby to me to ask me take care. She wants to see me lie on the hospital bed then she happy? Yesterday even locked me and baby out of the house just because my baby wants her to carry whenever she saw her. So when she wanted to cook, she force me to bring baby out to have a walk. After walk for around 5 mins. I bring baby up, she force me to bring her down again. She ignored my back pain! When my hub say her, she say no lah. Only when she wants to cook then ask me carry! What a bad mil! What if her daughter's mil also treat her like that. See how she will feels!

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Some MIL just keen to play with children and Not takecare of children. My step-MIL before I got pregnant told me she will do confinement for me, take care of baby for me bla bla bla. Then when I got pregnant, she got sooo happy. Then upon labour, she told me she need to 'see-first' if she can apply leave anot. She didn't do my confinement end of the day (I requested for 1 week so I can have proper rest after csect), never even visit me when I was in the hospital. Of course I'm not mad, but just disappointed because word is cheap. But thankfully she didn't take care also, cos I realized she can't even hold my baby properly when she came to see baby for the very first time at my place till now lol. Previously told me she has experience with babies all these 😅 Best is to always have a back up plan. They aren't obligated to takecare of OUR children too. So ya lor, just let it go and hurry find another solution. Take care!

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