Just need to rant... My hubby and I are playing this mobile game which he also intro one of his girl gamer friends. He will spend time on the game with her doing quests etc and make jokes and silly teasing remarks (bra size, about using her charm etc) about her in the game chat. This makes me feel quite uneasy and insecure. He mentioned he knows her more years than me and they are just jokes and nothing else. He does not think there is anything wrong with what he is doing so no use speaking to him about it. When I msg him, he dun reply yet can reply to msg in the game. Unsure how to make him understand how he is making me feel. He even said Im a xxxxing wife who suspect him about every thing. Is there really nothing wrong with what he is doing?

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Does he make the same joke with you? If he does not, there might be deeper communication issues between you and him. In any event, I feel the jokes with sexual nature might be a bit out of the comfort zone but if you know him to be like this before the marriage, then I guess you have to accept him as it is. Can't expect just because there is a marriage, the person have to change for the other party. A person has the right not to married someone but if one choose to marry someone, he or/she should accept him as a whole. Seems like these issues are usually raise by woman. Rarely heard of such things from my guy friends.

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Home Random Talk need rant hubby i playing mobile game which intro girl gamer friends spend time game with doing quests etc make jokes silly teasing remarks bra size about using charm etc about in game chat makes feel quite uneasy insecure mentioned knows more years than jokes nothing else does not think there anything wrong with what doing use speaking him about when i msg him dun reply yet reply msg in game unsure how make him understand how making