Just need to rant... My hubby and I are playing this mobile game which he also intro one of his girl gamer friends. He will spend time on the game with her doing quests etc and make jokes and silly teasing remarks (bra size, about using her charm etc) about her in the game chat. This makes me feel quite uneasy and insecure. He mentioned he knows her more years than me and they are just jokes and nothing else. He does not think there is anything wrong with what he is doing so no use speaking to him about it. When I msg him, he dun reply yet can reply to msg in the game. Unsure how to make him understand how he is making me feel. He even said Im a xxxxing wife who suspect him about every thing. Is there really nothing wrong with what he is doing?

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I can understand why you need to rant - I've experienced something similar. There's two ways you can go about it - you could be upfront, kindly say you've tried to be ok with it - but its not something I can accept as it's disrespectful and in your eyes emotionally cheating. The other option is to get some distance and wait till he starts paying you more attention, rather than his game. Sometimes showing you care & are hurt, only encourages their actions. I found the latter worked for me in the long run. Hope it helps!

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Home Random Talk need rant hubby i playing mobile game which intro girl gamer friends spend time game with doing quests etc make jokes silly teasing remarks bra size about using charm etc about in game chat makes feel quite uneasy insecure mentioned knows more years than jokes nothing else does not think there anything wrong with what doing use speaking him about when i msg him dun reply yet reply msg in game unsure how make him understand how making