Just need to rant... My hubby and I are playing this mobile game which he also intro one of his girl gamer friends. He will spend time on the game with her doing quests etc and make jokes and silly teasing remarks (bra size, about using her charm etc) about her in the game chat. This makes me feel quite uneasy and insecure. He mentioned he knows her more years than me and they are just jokes and nothing else. He does not think there is anything wrong with what he is doing so no use speaking to him about it. When I msg him, he dun reply yet can reply to msg in the game. Unsure how to make him understand how he is making me feel. He even said Im a xxxxing wife who suspect him about every thing. Is there really nothing wrong with what he is doing?

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Experienced this recently. It hurts, it is inappropriate for men to do that even its a friendly "conversation". It can progress to something worse if they become comfortable already. I talked to my husband and told him that it is very uncomfortable for me as his wife to see those topics being talked about. At first he wouldnt understand, until i made realize if we switch places and i send mesgs like that to a man. What would it make him feel?

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7y ago

To him, what he is doing is not wrong. he said these are just jokes and nothing more and even says he dun mind or care if I do the same to or about other guy. Makes me feel even worse... just can't talk to him about thing if he thinks he is right

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Home Random Talk need rant hubby i playing mobile game which intro girl gamer friends spend time game with doing quests etc make jokes silly teasing remarks bra size about using charm etc about in game chat makes feel quite uneasy insecure mentioned knows more years than jokes nothing else does not think there anything wrong with what doing use speaking him about when i msg him dun reply yet reply msg in game unsure how make him understand how making