My wife is pregnant with another man's child

Talk to your wife and ask her what role the father of her child wants to play. The father wants to do right by his baby and support it, so that isn't bad in itself. But you have to make sure what his intentions are to your wife because if it's more than child support, then it will complicate things.

Seems you have to have a talk with your wife: if you knew the situation before getting married, you accepted it... then keep accepting it; if you did not know, and if you don't accept it: your relationship is at stake... don't hurt yourself for someone else action and take back your freedom

please get yourself tested -.- the fact that she slept around without safety meant that she has very little care about the marriage or your well-being. I always tell my guy friends if they wanna sleep around and etc, please at least wear a condom -.- The same should applies to woman.

know yourself worth pre. Man up. if I were you, I would choose to leave. I don't deserve that level of disrespect. Pero kung gusto mo ganyan ang trato sayo, its your happiness, your choice. There is no right or wrong answer. Just choose one and live with the consequence.

This is a painful and difficult situation, and one that needs thought and discussion withiut anger, even if likely to be hard. Suggest you chat with her, and then chat as a 3 to decide how and if you can love forward. On the positive side, it's an extra babysitter!

By the way are you staying in SG, please consult a lawyer on your issue. If you know the child is not yours but did not take action. The court might assume you are willing to take responsibility of the child if you happen to divorce many years later.

Sorry to hear this. I asked my husband d same n he asked me back. We both cannot accept it. We have friends who committed such too but were two-way faults and ended divorce. Listen to yourself... this is long-term and no movie-liked ending.

Did you know about the baby before you were married or was this from an instance of infidelity? Agree with Florian , you need to have a talk with your wife and tell her how you feel, it's good to get all these things out in the open.

I have lots of experience with all topics Marriage, Babies, toddler's, Teenager's, Parenting skills, depression...and much more. Let me know if any of you need advice or help. I would be happy to help you out no problem.

Co-parenting is key. Any parent has the right to be part of their childs life even if not in relationship. The child will have more than enough love for both of you, and it shouldn't change anything between you and her.