My best friend gave birth 1 month after me and she has already lost all the pregnancy weight, whereas I still have 5kg left to go. She looks great and seems to be handling motherhood better than me overall. I am happy for her, but also a little resentful. Is this normal?
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It's normal to feel this way. It is inevitable to compare, even with close friends or loved ones around us. However, just remind yourself that everyone is different. Focus on the positive things and enjoy motherhood the best you can. What is important is that you are recovering and managing your roles as a mother to your child, wife to your partner, daughter to your parents etc etc. Eat well, rest as much as you can, exercise to make yourself feel good (not so much to lose the weight).. take the stress off and celebrate all the little wins (baby smiling at you, growing well) and, hopefully, you will feel better! :) Take care!!
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