My 3 years old son has become very stubborn...doesn't listens to me or his dad unless we shout at him. We tell him don't do he will do it and show. How do I explain to him?

wooo....all the best, felt like i am reading the same story that is playing out in my house these days..... it's the age of rebellion, its not just teens who do it anymore. at this age, your baby is exploring the world and understanding that there are so many options out there to choose from. also, it is interesting for them to see the kind of reactions they can elicit from parents and others around. stay calm and don't shout. talk to your tot repeatedly and say that unless he stops shouting, you cannot understand what he wants. if that does not work, tell him that you will not allow playing, or a favourite toy, or TV or whatever it is your tot would otherwise do. and make sure you follow what you say.