Detail scan

Mungkin saya overthinking sbb semua orang cakap perut saya masih kecil (21 minggu preggy), tapi waktu detail scan nanti if kita dapat tau baby ada kecacatan, kita boleh terminate pregnancy atau masih teruskan dan detail scan hanya sekadar tahu sahaja?

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Hi mommy, i’m currently 23 weeks of pregnancy & facing the same situation with you. Mmg perut tak nampak langsung melainkan tgh naked or pakai baju yg betul betul fit to body then baru nampak baby bump but mostly org ingatkan buncit haha i pun ada overthinking whether my baby is okay or not & so on, it’s normal to feel this way lagi lagi yg first time mother mcm i. Baby kurang kick sikit pun dah paranoid. But however, kita kena control our mind okay? It’s not easy but kita cuba slowly ya. As long as check up & scan semuanya according to growth alhamdulillah. I always tell myself “baby tahu mummy nak sorokkan pregnancy from surroundings so baby pun bagi kerjasama menyorok dlm perut” sbb i mmg tak plan nak annouce/share my pregnancy until deliver nanti except main family members je yg tahu. “Baby bagi mummy bergaya mcm anak dara lagi ni, jimat duit tak perlu shopping maternity attire” sbb masih steady boleh sarung semua jenis pakaian yg ada. Then doctor pun ckp sbb badan i kurus & tinggi so mmg tak mustahil pun. I tak nafikan kadang kadang org sekeliling main ckp je “eh mana perut? kecil lah baby nanti” lagilah keadaan kita extra sensitive tapi i selalu psycho mindset dgn kata kata tadi tu. You’re not alone, we’re in this together. I doakan semuanya berjalan dgn lancar & may Allah protect both of you. Take care!

Baca lagi
2y ago

thank you for the warm wishes, but i just found out my partner is cheating on me whilst me struggling with this pregnancy so overthinking tu jadi lagi teruk la semua benda pun. maybe baby pun taknak susahkan mak dia kena cari baju baru byk2. :')