Choosing infant care

Hi mummies. My lo has been offered a place at My First Skool and at the same time he secure a spot at a private cc as my first born was enrolled there and is still there (N1 now). Due to cost factor my hubby is keen to transfer him over but I’m undecided for various reasons. 1. Good experience and comfortable with the private cc. 2. MFS does not allow site visit and parent not allow to accompany lo on 1st day of school. 3. Request to speak to MFS principal but was denied and has only been interacting with MFS’s service officer (via phone and email) so far. 4. Worried both kids will grow apart if they are not in the same school. I think my anxiety level is at the highest level now and I couldn’t sleep well for the past few days. Hoping for some advices/hints/guidance from fellow mummies. Thank you.