Hi mummies, im currently pregnant with no2, however suddenly my no1 dislikes me. Doesnt want me to carry. When i carry him he will either scratch me or bite me. He is ok with everyone except me. What can i do? Why is this happening? ? i didnt scold or beat him at all. He was always ok with me only recently sudden change in him.

Have you told your no1 that you're pregnant? There's a belief that your child will know when you're expecting. In my case, I did notice signs of neediness in my first and last trimester. lots of tantrums and seeking for attention. I don't know if it's related to my pregnancy but most people concluded that it was. What I did was to keep giving them lots of cuddles. Read books on new siblings (some suggestions here http://www.netmums.com/baby/after-the-birth-helping-your-child-adjust-to-a-new/books-about-babies-to-share-with-your-child). reassure them nothing will change with the arrival of new baby (I keep reiterating they are so lucky that there's an extra person to love them)...basically anything to make them feel better. At the same time try to explain to him that biting and hitting you is painful and most importantly tell him you love him