Hi mummies, how do ur educate or control ur kids when staying with own parents or in laws? Im staying with own parents and they overwrite every single thing i say. I alrd quarrel and stay firm in my stand, ended up also lost. I really very fed up with my parents. Even my child knows that whatever i said is as good as "air"

If your parents are your kid primary care giver, best is to seek alternative care giving arrangements. If talking to your parents doesn't work, best is to move out. These are the only ways to avoid further friction with your parents. I'm sure you don't wish to further strain the relationship to a point of no return. Besides, it's confusing for your kid to have to listen to differing opinions on the same thing. Good luck.