Hi mummies, does size concern when comes to carrying a baby? I am small size and skinny, everythime I carry my baby people will say that baby don't feel good if u carry because not fat enough to make baby comfortable. I feel hurt .. no matter how I eat, I can't get fat..I am sad that my baby don't feel comfortable when I carry him.

When coming to bringing up children or parenting, people whose children is 20 to 30 years old, children younger than mine or even with no children will want to share their school of thoughts on how to be "good" parents. However, they often forgotten how each child is different in many way. I used to be one Mommy who so "Gan Cheong" over every comment about my child and only to notice how must stress it caused to the two of us that we forget to enjoy the bonding. Now I will ignore all these "good life experiences" and follow my gut feel on what is right and best for my kid.