Mummies, currently have 3 kids and now preggy. Currently working and next year i will be resign my job.due to some reason want to leave the my company. Now i thinking should i find job or stay at home look after kids? I want to hire maid when i look for job but my mom told me that maid cant handle 3kids and 1newborn. If i hire maid and my mom help to take care worry she will find problem with the maid.

If I have four kids I will definitely opt to be sahm if we can afford it. May have to cut down on a lot of lavishes but well time spent with the kids is invaluable. My house has four kids, mine and two nieces and a nephew. Both my parents and a maid and myself are taking care and it can already be chaotic. I will be returning to work soon, can't imagine the mess at home. Yes they can somehow survive but there will surely be a lot of conflicts between your mom and the maid. When people get busy and irritated tempers flare. If your husband is supportive stay at home to spend time with kids is better. You can do some freelance work or part time work or sell some things online for some extra cash?