Pag bubukod

Hi momshies, please share your thoughts and experiences. Nakatira pa po kami now sa parents ko may 3 year old baby boy kami and meron na din po kami kinukuhang bahay ng partner ko, pero turnover is 2025 pa. Ngayon, nag iisip po kami kung bubukod na ba kami agad ngayon or hihintayin namin yung bahay namin. Ang iniisip ko po is doble gastos dahil nag babayad pa kami ng equity, and may binabayaran din kaming sasakyan. Sa ngayon ako lang po ang may work, 2 jobs po ako. Kaya naman po ng budget kung bubukod kami ngayon pero need talaga mag tipid ng sobra. Lagi na din po talaga kasi kami nag aaway ng partner ko dahil gustong gusto niya na umalis sa bahay ng parents ko. Iniisp ko po kase yung budget lalo na ako lang may trabaho tapos 2 jobs pa almost 17 hrs a day ako mag work and ako din po nag aalaga sa baby namin madalas pero tinutulungan niya naman ako. I really really need your advice. Pagod na din po ako and pagod na din ako makipag talo sakanya :((((( super draining na sobra :(((

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Bakit gusto ng asawa mo bumukod? Im assuming okay lang pamilya mo right? Parang mas strong yung reason na gusto nyang bumokod kaysa makatipid... And I think he could not fathom it kasi naman ikaw lang ang may work...hopefully his action is well-intended Its not uncommon that some families have this arrangement na yung babae ang nagwowork at yung husband ay sa bahay....hope this arrangement has been agreed by both parties wholeheartedly. Try explore whats the underlying reason for him. Laid down your worries and ask him his solution for that... He better know how to negotiate... haha because in a relationship you need to know how to negotiate as well.... that's what they always say communication is the key ☺️😅

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