mommies ,naexprnce nyo na po ba un anak nyo inuuntog ulo or hnhampas nya ng kamay ung ulo nya pag d nya nkukuha ung gusto nya?or pag nasbhan mong bad or no ung gngwa nya?? ung anak ko po ksi 1 yr old and 5 mos lng nya ganun po gngwa nya huhu wla nmn pong gumgwa ng ganun smn mg asawa ? mejo worried po tlga ako mnsn naagapan ko ung paguntog nya lalo n s noo nya mnsn my pasa na pg d ko naagapan.any advice po mga mommies ?

Better yet pinapatingin sa mga expert pag ganyan. kc nga dba maraming reasons kung bakit hindi normal ang tantrums ng bata. in a first place, for me hndi normal ang mag tantrums ang bata. kc napakadali nilang iplease. as long as wala silang sakit, masaya sila. Yun pag hindi nakuha ng bata yng gusto, feeling ko its all about us being parent. try to use Thorndike's law. Iprepare natin ang bata ahead of time, give them set of expectations para ready sila then ma eexercise ng bata yun..it will really helps you a lot. ex. Pupunta kayo ng mall, then you are not ready to buy him/her a toy, since wala pa sa budget yun, let him/her know that atleast a couple of days ago na pupunta kayo ng mall pero walang toy na bibilhin kc kulang budget ni Mommy. Kasi kung ipipilit nya and magtatantrums sya i set of expectations mo sya na iiwan mo sya and next time hindi mo na sya isasama ulit. then ask for the approval of your kid if yes or no, make sure eexplain m sa kanya why then . then you'll get the effect . ( last law) I just wanna share what I did with my son a few years way back. And it really helped me a lot. By the way, I raised my son alone and never kong naging problem ang tantrums because I always talk to him prior sa activity namin or nya. even when he started to get into " saling pusa" he was then almost 2 y.o pero never syang umiyak and from the first day , naiwan ko sya that is because of Thorndike's law. I hope this helps.