childminder/yaya/nanny bonding with baby

Hi Mommies, i just want to ask for advice. Mag2months na yun yaya ko and baby together, pero sabi ng inlaws ko palagi daw umiiyak yun baby pdin sa yaya. Kasi yun yaya ilang beses ko nman sinabihan na laruin yun baby ko (5months) pero parang ang goal nia plagi is padedehin at patulugin. There was a time na ngleak pa yun poop ni baby sknia kasi hnd nia pinapalitan agad yun diappy. Mabait nman yun yaya ng LO ko kaso hnd pdin happy sknia c baby. Dpat ko nb xang i let go or bigyan pa ng chance since mahirap humanap ng yaya ngayon. :(