Step dad treatment

Hi mommies. I have 5 year old daughter, she's my 2nd born, my 1st born died on his 4th day.. I am now 29 weeks pregnant to my 3rd. Ang issue ko mga mommies eh yung treatment ng partner (step dad) ko sa daughter ko. Seems may anger issue or let's say short tempered sya. Madalas nya kasing mabatukan and worst mapalo ung anak ko. Lagi nya rin nasasabihan ng masasakit na salita which I, myself minsan nakakapag salita rin ng masasakit sa anak ko dahil na rin sa kakulitan. But I always take time na mag explain sa daughter ko bakit nagagalit ako, para maintindihan nya na pinagagalitan ko sya because of her actions. Now, nakipag usap na ko sa partner ko to lessen ung pagbubunga at pananakit sa anak ko ksi ayokong ma feel ng daughter ko na iba sya at lalong ayokong dumating sa panahon na lumaki na rin yung pinagbubuntis ko at makitang laging sinasaktan ang ate nya (baka kasi magkaron ng gap) ng partner ko. Kaso parang walang pagbabago and feels like di nya pinakikinggan mga sinasabi ko. Before naman di sya mapanakit, then on our 2 years na dun na sya naging short tempered. To add, ako ang nag wowork for the family at si lip wala parin work (may work sya bago maging kami til on our 3rd month in relationship) and we're almost 3 years palang. I don't know what to do mga mommies. Pls help, advise 😔🙏🏻 #pleasehelp #advicepls

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Sorry mommy ha, pero kung sakin nangyari yan,which is i have a daughter too before i met my current partner and i recently gave birth to our little boy with my current lip.. Pero pag ginawa sa anak ko ng lip ko yan, kinausap ko tapos walang pagbabago? Kung ako ha, cut off ko na yang lalaking yan. Mas mahal mo ba sya kaysa anak mo momsh? Kawawa naman yung bata, binabatukan? Never ko napagbuhatan ng kamay anak kong panganay tapos gaganyanin lang ni lip? Never. 💔

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Anonymous

4y ago

I wanted to cut him off way back, but whenever I think of my past, nahihirapan ako na mag decide. My lip's family/relatives welcomed me and my daughter wholeheartedly.. lalo na ung byenan ko na mahal na mahal kami ng anak ko from day 1. I'm just disappointed about my lip treatment sa anak ko, if only I can change him impromptu, ginawa ko na. Sa totoo lang momsh, he's a good partner to me, magaling sa bahay, di babaero. But he's not a good step dad to my daughter. I only wish na meron akong family that I can run to pero wala. 😞

just put yourself sa position ng daughter mo. ano ineexpect mo sa mom mo in your perspective,? ipagtatanggol ka from your step dad? or hahayaan ka lng n saktan ng step dad? and what would you feel kung walang gawin mom mo sa situation mo ngayon, magagalit ka b? well that's something to think about. ikaw n po mag decide. kung ako kasi yung bata pag nag kaisip n ko. ang una ko maiisip bkit d ako pinag tatanggol ng nanay ko.

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