DNA test for legal purposes (RA 9262 PSYCHOLOGICAL VIOLENCE)

Hello mommies, the alleged father of my child was threatening me. Pasok po ba ito sa RA 9262 PSYCHOLOGICAL VIOLENCE? He demands a DNA testing when the baby is out. Kapag hndi daw skanya ang bata ay kakasuhan at ipapakulong nya ko. I told hin that I'm NOT scared & I'm sure that he's the father dahil wala naman ako ibang naka relasyon ng nag hiwalay kami at na assign sya sa malayo. We've been LIP for 5years, suddenly he assigned in Mindanao. I caught him with another girl then we broke up. He go home every other month, we try to fix things but wala na talaga. Tapos nabuntis ako. Wala akong iba but he always accusing me na meron kaya kelangan daw ipaDNA ng baby ko paglabas. Sobrang sakit for me at sobrang insulto for me since day 1 of my pregnancy. I am trying to calm his mind and prove him wrong every time he go home. Nag babago naman isip nya pag magkasama kmi, natatanggap nya na baby nya at iapelido nga daw skanya at pinapangakuan ako but when he go back in Mindanao, he suddenly change his mind again. Hindi ko na alam para bang sinasapian. I really don't know what to do. It gives me so much stress and overthink. Buong pag bubuntis ko puro stress at pag iisip ng kung ano ano nalang. Pasalamat na nga lang ako at active si baby, sign that my baby boy is healthy at 24weeks. Ano po ba dpat kong gawin? Ayoko naman sya kasuhan kung kanya ko iapelido ang bata. For the future of my child. Pero makatarungan pa ba yung ginagawa nya sakin? 😒 Sobrang gulong gulo ako.. Panay isip.. Hndi ko maiwasan magalit, sumama loob at mag isip.

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Pwede naman po but you need to submit an evidence (psychological report/ evaluation) na talagang nagcause sya sayo ng psychological abuse. So you need to have yourself duly evaluated by a psychologist who could testify in court na yung ginawa ng partner nyo really caused you psychological distress. Also, sino gagastos ng DNA test? If proven na sya ang ama, dapat sya ang gumastos nun. And kung ganyan pala relationship nyo, gusto nyo ba talaga ipa-apelyido pa sa kanya ang bata?

Magbasa pa
8mo ago

I understand na right po ni baby yung sa apelyido ng papa nya. Ang sakin lang, kung maging maayos relationship nya sa papa nya, eh di ok. Pero if (huwag naman sana), maging estranged lang sila ng ama niya, magiging insecurity nya pa yun, lalo na kung in the future magka-asawa at anak kayo ng iba. Tapos isang buong family kayo na magkaka-apelyido, yung sa anak mo ay iba. Anyway, that's based on a real life scenario lang kasi na nangyari sa pamangkin ko. Kasal yung pinsan ko pero na-annul. Ang ending, yung panganay nya tuloy naging insecure lalo, mas ok pa kung pareho na lng sana sila ng apelyido ng nanay nya. Anyways, syempre that's your call. I just gave you a food for thought. Goodluck po ☺️