Anong mas nakaka guilty---working mom na walang time sa kids or stay-at-home mom pero walang pera pambili ng toys?

I was working mom since I had my 2nd child .. and nanonotice ko na lumalayo ung loob nla sa akin. then I realize when my eldest told me that they don't need material things like toys they need a mom who always thier for them. then I decideto stop working