Advice for a young mom
Hello, mga mommies. I just want to ask an advice. Lately, yung husband ko he’s been giving me mixed signals na hinahanap hanap niya babae niya pero ang sweet niya saakin . Tas nahuli ko siya ulit with the same girl na pinang cheat niya saakin. Nagkita nanaman sila. Idk kung in love na siya sa girl. Magdadalawa na kasi anak namin. And ang bigat na sapakiramdam idk if i’ll let go na ba or wait for him to change?
sabi nga nila. if he cheated you once, shame on him. but if he cheated you twice shame on you. cheating is not a mistake, it's an option. but before you decide, better to speak with him first. Try to atleast rectify the issue. communication is a key. WE cant change a man. kahit anong sabihin natin, we cant control them. It's still their choice. buhay nila yan eh. saka ka magdecide once na nakausap mo na. gamitin po ang utak, wag ang puso. isipin mo yung anak mo. dapat role model ang parents :)
Magbasa pa
kung may history n sila nung girl at sabi mo nga po sya ung pinagcheat sayo dati, and nahuli mo po ulit sila, ano po un friends lng sila? hehe What I mean is, sympre hindi po un okay. I think po, make him change and if hindi sya mgbago, then let go. Atleast po you still give another chance. Wg lang po abusuhin. otherwise, ung self respect mo din po ang affected.
Magbasa pahusband means you're married? Kung legally married kayo, you can teach him a lesson perks ng pagging married. ang advice ko momsh don't be financially dependent on him. para kung maging worst man Ang lahat hindi ka nakatali sa hindi magandang situation.. asked him directly ano gusto niya and start from there. just don't forget your Worth at the end..
Magbasa paPano pong cignals na hinahanap hanap yung babae? If husband mo po.. kasal po kayo.. you have all the right po para iayos si hubby. Bakit po kelangan pa nya mambabae? Confront him. Mag usap po kayo lalo’t magdadalawa na yung anak nyo.
u talk to him mommy kng ano na tlg un gusto nya mangyari... and be ready lng sa maggng desisyon nya... and sa panahon ngyn ndi na uso un mag wait sa mga lalaki na ndi kya i control sarili at nagchecheat. know ur worth...
Suggest ko lang mommy ha take time muna to think para sa sarili mo, decide on future plans and think of the possibilities if you stay or go then it’s best to talk and give him an ultimatum.
don't decide while you are mad. pray for guidance and talk to him pag kaya mo na. whatever your decision may be, always think na para sa iyo and sa kids mo yan.
grabi naman husband mo mommy. 😢
