May I know if anyone is like me? After I give birth till now I don't have any sex drive, I just want to BF lo and concentrate on lo only. Is this normal? Will it affect my rs with hubby as he did not say anything.

Yeah, I am 3 month PP and still nothing. We tried 3 times but I am too dry and not in the mood. Have bought different lubes, Ky jelly but like nothing. :( I have done 2-3 handjobs for him cause I know he cannot control anymore. But can see he wants more. He needs more. Feel inadequate but I can't help if I am not in the mood. Sometimes I wonder if I should close my eyes and grit my teeth and just bare with the pain and lack of mood. But to me that's no different from rape. Dunno what to do :(