Hi. Just to know how you feel if you catch your husband masturbate with his phone on his hand? šŸ¤®

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Oh my. I hate reading these kind of posts. Cause it reminds me of my husband as well. After 2 years of marriage with a 15-month-old daughter, my husband still watches porn. Iā€™ve caught him many times but heā€™s still doing it and he doesnā€™t even apologise. Iā€™m pregnant again with my 2nd, tell me I shouldnā€™t file for divorce for the safety of my kids in future? Weā€™ve all read about how some disgusting and sick fathers can be towards their own daughters. Do I want it to be THAT late to make a choice? Should I wait for him to change? He doesnā€™t even want to touch or hold me. Kiss me or even communicate with me. Heā€™s not interested in sex with me at all. Tell me again, how am I supposed to be feeling? Weā€™re married, not like weā€™re still single. Iā€™m a SAHM for now and what choices do I have? My husband is sick and addicted to porn who doesnā€™t love, need or want me at all but is still ā€œacting like a husbandā€ because of our daughter, I guess. Husbands are defensive when you catch them red-handed. So be tactful with your words.

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Depending on situation. If my husband ask me for sex when Im heavily pregnant or like now (confinement), Iā€™ll probably ask him to settle it himself. Since I canā€™t give it to him, I wonā€™t stop him from satisfying his needs as long as heā€™s not cheating on me. But if Iā€™m all recovered and he didnā€™t ask me but do it on his own Iā€™ll probably question him.. like hello am I ded to you. I donā€™t know your situation but maybe you can try to talk to him? Maybe understand from his POV first?

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Oh man thatā€™ll be a sucky feeling. Definitely need to talk to him about it.