maintaining marriage is not easy. how do you all manage a hot-temper husband?

Used to be married to a very hot tempered man. But I am quick tempered too. It ended in disaster. My current spouse is very very calm and when I am angry he kisses my cheeks or mimics me and winks and I can't help but laugh and it diffuses everything. So try humour and every time he is angry, show him even more love. Current hubby warned that next time I swear, he's gonna slobber me with ten mins non stop kisses. And when I get angry, he literally grabs my hands and kisses me all over my face until I start giggling. :)