She may want to feed herself like the other person commentated. Try giving her finger foods so she can feed herself and make things easier on you.. boiled eggs...toast that is lightly toasted (this helps with teething too as they can rub their gums on this) ... or soft noodles with vegetables..
you try a different method. Try Baby Led Weaning! get her to feed herself with food she can pick it up and eat! This way it encourages her to eat better
Erm for toddler now. They dun eat a lot for a meal but they need many meals