If you are attracted to a male colleague and he too is, then I suggest that you avoid being with him alone and having long conversations. Because, you both already are attracted to each other, then the more time you will spend together, more attracted you will be towards him. And your otherwise good family life is at stake if you continue flowing with this attraction.
And it happens in such cases that one is not able to have control on one's feelings and think that nothing will happen and I will stop here or now. But, then the person keeps going with the emotions and spoils one's present and future. So, I suggest, do not have intentional personal meetings or outings with this man, and keep it as professional as possible.
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