my cheating Husband wants a divorce

Lately my husb nvr come hm. He keep saying that he is working. There are days that he switch off his hp. No sms or nvr pick up my calls. When i confronted him. I ask him. He keep saying working. I asked him r u hving affair. He said NO. We really got into argument. He even slapped me. I say i will call the police. But i never. I went to see doc. I lodge a report. Police called him n asked him. My husband msg me saying that i messed up his carrer. Now he wants a divource because i made a report. WTF seriously. I tols him lets sit down n talk. Lets see e counselling. Seems like he dont give a damm f*** abt it. I have a 13 month old dau. He keep saying lets sign e paper. Dont wait too long n etc. I said NO. He nt happy abt it. I actually leave him alone for few days. Then i texted him n asked him abt his well being. That i miss u n i still love u. The ans he gave is i dont love you anymore. No feelings. I dont care abt u and yr dau. Lets get divource. What e hell seriously. Then again. When he is not ard at home. I opened his laptop. He usually leave his email n fb open. This women is his co colleague. This bitch has gone married man before. Oh my god. This is wat the saw n really shocked me: - bought flight tickets n accommodation to australia - book hotels in singapore - pictures of both together n kissing - bought bracelet n ring He is really a bastard. I m just shattered seriously. I feel like a bullet just got shot in my chest.

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You know the answer best. Whatever we suggest and advice, ultimately is your choice. Even drama series also showed all kinds of men who have marital affairs and the outcomes. Whether or not he meant it when he hits you(for a good reason to initiate divorce, tho a guy should nv hit a woman) you should consider about your daughter, do you want her to continue to have such bad childhood memories? Whatever decision you make, spare a thought for your daughter, she is the utmost innocent party in this. Think for your daughter before you think for yourself. If this guy ever returns, do you think the three of you can have a fresh restart and continue to be happy again? Don make decision based on short run happiness! Divorce and raise up a child is no big deal. It is not a matter of can or cannot but a want or don't want. Be strong for your daughter! Let her be proud of you! *hugs*

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Home Random Talk lately husb nvr come hm keep saying that working there days that switch off hp sms nvr pick callswhen i confronted him i ask him keep saying workingi asked him r hving affair said really got into argument slapped i say i call police but i never i went see doc i lodge reportpolice called him n asked him husband msg saying that i messed carrer now wants divource because i made report wtf seriouslyi tols him lets sit down n talk lets