Naniniwala ba kayo sa evil eye?

Hi! Kami ni hubby ko 2011 mag jowa na kami tapos 2013 ngpakasal na kmi.. Nabiyayaan kami year 2017, super duper Happy namin nun, kasi sa wakas nakabuo din.. Minay day ko pa ung PT ko nun, pinost ko sa fb na Magiging parents na kami.. Tapos nagpacheck up agad kami, nakita dun kaka umpisa palang, so ff check up after 2weeks para makita kung may hb, tapos Pagbalik namin, wala syang hb sabi NG ob bugok daw. para kong sinakluban NG langit at lupa nun dat time💔 iyak ako NG iyak lumalabas kmi NG clinic nung ob.. Tapos may relatives si hubby na sabi nya pa 2nd opinion kmi, na ginawa nga namin, ayun may nakita NG baby 6wiks sya, pero wala pang hb, kung tutuusin dapat daw meron na un, kasi 6wiks na, and 2 months nako delay ( due to PCOS) sabi balik kami after 1wik para malaman kung magkaka hb pa ba, kung wala blighted ovum na... Magwa-1 wik palang un, dinugo nakoooo💔😢 walaa naaa.. Tapos ung rainbow baby ko, binalik smen year 2022, july nakargahan ulit ako🤗 pinursigi ko po pumayat kahit mahirap kasi nga may pcos ako.. Ayun, sobrang bait ni Lord, binalik nya ang baby namin❤️🙌 pero dat time, private ako.. Walang post sa fb, walang my day.. As in wala😁 nun nalng nagpa gender reveal kami 20weeks ko un, nagulat nalang ang madla na buntis na pala ko ulit forda 2nd time😊 ayun na share ko lang.. Mas mainam talaga na private lang, at I cherish nyong mag asawa ang pregnancy journey, kasi hindi lahat NG nakapaligid sten, masaya para sten eh, un iba bad luck ang hatid..

May crab mentality kasi tayong mga pinoy kaya feeling natin pag may good things happening satin, there are people wishing us to fail. Inggitera lang mga yun. You shouldn't let them have power over you. Pero sa totoo lang kung iisipin mo logically, rationally at scientifically (lahat na ng ly 🤣), hindi natutuloy ang isang pregnancy kasi may step sa development ng embryo na di nagawa ng tama. so iisipin ng katawan mo, let's start over. Critical kasi talaga yung first trimester kaya dito high chance makunan. Tapos pag ma-meet ulit ng katawan mo yung tamang conditions para magbuntis ulit, start ulit process. Basta may development stage na sinusundan yan katawan mo. I don't think naman na kasama sa conditions ng pregnancy yung "everyone else should be happy about my pregnancy". Concern lang ng katawan mo is yung overall status if your body has the ideal conditions to get pregnant. Although remember na di mo fault kung makunan ka. Feeling kasi natin palagi tayo pinagmamasdan ng iba, tapos siyempre social media pa. pag nagpost rreact mga tao etc. nasself conscious tayo lalo. So if you're the type na madaling malason sa iniisip ng iba then definitely keep it private and share it with people na you believe is truly happy for you. But if you're someone na kebs basta gusto magshare, go din! basta kung saan wala kang stress, yun gawin mo.

during my first pregnancy last year, we announced it agad sa fb kasi excited. after a week, I had subchorionic hem, marked as high risk prenancy then at 12 +5 weeks, nawala si baby. maybe because i was so stressed and since at 6 weeks i have experienced 2 transvaginal ultrasounds, twice na speculum ni ob... di na kinaya. constantly stressing out about my high risk pregnancy kahit anong relax ko nag ooverthink na ako. the hardest part after we posted it on fb was the friends asking how I was doing. They didn't know... so eventually we had to make it public after a month from the loss. another round of iyakan and self pity since madami nag cocomment kahit yung mga di parati nag eengage sa posts mo nakiki marites na din. And what makes me mad is when they will say na di daw para sa akin yung baby. I find that comment very insensitive... it makes me pity myself even more na parang I do not deserve it kaya nawala? that comment is too harsh especially pag fresh pa yung moment. Now, I chose to keep my pregnancy private but not a secret. Family lang ang nakakaalam and other people when mamemeet tas chinichika ni mother. But no more posting it on social media muna... since di naman sila yung magbabayad ng bills. I just want to keep my peace of mind knowing na mga few trusted people lang namin ang makaka alam :)

ako hindi totally naniniwala pero pribado talaga akong tao, pero naniniwala ako sa usog. ung side ni partner nung nalaman na buntis ako, 3days after pumunta na sa bahay na madaming dalang pagkain gusto nila ipaalam na din sa relatives ko na ayaw ko sana kc lahat ng tiyahin ko marites. hahaha pero un nga excited din partner ko kc 2weeks plng sya sa abroad di namin expect na nakabuo kami bago sya umalis, sya ang nagrequest na post nya ung tvs @ 6w sa fb nya. after that naka 2 balik pa ako bago mag 3mos dahil nagcocontract na agad kahit complete bed rest ako, stress ako kc sinasabi ng pinsan ko na pinagchichismisan nga daw ako sa compound nila dahil hindi kami kasal ng bf ko 5yrs na kami. other than that wala na kaming update sa social media until now 14w na, wala din ako balak magshare na. cguro pag nalaman nlng ung gender pero ayoko din ng gender reveal pa. then sa panganganak na. iwas stress din sa sasabihin ng ibang relatives at tao. ang hirap kc nagkakaanxiety na sa pagbubuntis tapos may mga negative aura pa sa paligid mo.

hindi ko alam kung totoo talaga o beliefs lang yung Evil Eye, pero I guess wala naman masama if ikeep private muna ung pregnancy. 2014 nung una kong mabuntis, kaso nawala den, then this year, nalaman namin ni hubby na buntis na ko ulit after trying for a long time. Excited na excited akong ipost, pero sabi ni hubby, bilang napaka private na tao non, wag daw muna. Sinabi lang namin sa immediate family and friends na kelangan malaman talaga. After the first trimester, saka ko lang pinost ung ultrasound ko sa IG and FB ko, and after non, pinigil na ko ni hubby na mag share ng updates. I guess nag make sense saken ung sinabi nya na "not everything is to be shared and not everyone is going to be happy with what you are sharing".. I guess it's right.. iwas heartbreak naren if you notice that some people aren't going to like or notice your post. So usapan namin ni hubby, no more posting na unless it's really a milestone and to keep it lowkey ☺️☺️☺️

Naniniwala ako sa evil eye, i had an experienced first pregnancy ko ng 2018, super excited kmi kasi first baby sa family and first apo, 2 days after nagbleeding na ko, ang bilis lang ng pangyayari on my fifth day niraspa nko dhil heavy bleeding na..6 weeks na angel ko dat time..And now God answered our prayers after 5 years, 25 weeks na ko ngayun and family lang may alam and sa work, di ko pinagsasabi hinahayaan ko lang madiscover ng may nakakakita sakin.. di namn po sa tinatago si baby but mas ok na magdoble ingat lalo na kahit friends or family may mga taong akala mo masaya for you pero di pala..Everyday I pray for my baby na sana lagi sya healthyband safe kmi.. ingat mga mi..

sakim naman, the day na nalaman naming positive sinabi kagad partner ko sa parents nya then next turn ko naman. may close friends rin na nakaalam. super konti lang as in. di ako panay post abt sa tummy ko or pt. i chose it to be private. syempre selfie selfie nalang kaso manas kaya halatang preggy hahahha. then nag myday ako ng ultrasound ng gender reveal. dun sila mga nag congrats. mga 1mo before delivery hahahha then tye day my baby was born. pero naging maselan ako 1st trimester. siguronkasi sinabi naman kagad. first pregnancy ko kasi hinfi masyado kasi wala nakakaalam. kaso binawi ni God yun hehe kaya ayos lanh. after 2 yrs binalik naman uli

Siguro naniniwala ako sa ganito. Sakto din kasi nung preggy ako sis, andami friends ko sa FB na preggy din na super post agad ng positive PT nila. Tapos later wala ng update kasi ayun pala nakunan, that served as a lesson sakin. Na minsan may mga tao kasi na inggit, baka mabati pa. So I hid my pregnancy, family, close relatives and close friends lang may alam. I later announced it na lang nung 3rd trimester ko and minake sure ko muna na ok si baby sa CAS ultrasound. At least very strong na si baby by then and stress free and pregnancy kasi onti lang nakakaalam hehe

Hindi kasi lahat ng tao happy for us pag may achievement tayo or pag may blessing ganon. Isa pa, nakakadagdag din sa pressure pag madaming nakakaalam tapos madaming laging pumapansin sayo or nangangamusta. Sa 1st pregnancy ko inannounce namin at 3 months, nakunan ako at 4 months. Kaya nung napreggy ako uli, di naman namin tinago pero di na kami nag announce sa fb. Nagpost nalang ako ng maternity shoot 2wks bago ko manganak. No pressure, happy and healthy pregnancy lang.

sorry to say this, but even kasi family mo, maybe extended family, may ingit kaya siguro ganon. i almost experienced that, too excited to announce my 2nd pregnancy. akala ko din blighted ovum, but thank God nakita rin heartbeat after 3rd tvs.. sabi nung iba too early daw kasi nag announce, but God is good, kahit na may evil eye ( people who's jealous) e binigay at prenotectahan kami ni Lord. #thywillbedone. Just pray. God bless you ❤️