he dont love me anymore?

hello ladies.. just want to rant, please feel free to give your opinions or advices my husband said he has no interest in talking to me because i always look moody and i noticed he treats me and his close friend's wife differently...his attitude..the way he messaged her..the way he looked at her.. when i asked him about it he said because she treated him nice in the past and even now.. i got offended immediately, i broke my previous engagement just to be with him..i quarreled with my family because of this... i gave birth to his child... this is not nice? recently i have initiating to make love but he keeps telling me he have no feel.. is he just not interested in me anymore? we havent talk for more 10 sentences for the past 3 days and we have no intimancy regardless physically or emotionally.. we have been quarreling ever since the birth of baby and he has been siding with his parents.. whenever i rant to him about letting my 3 month baby watch tv or my FIL wants to poke the teat with needle..my husband never help. is he just not interested in me anymore?? or simply tired? what should i do? my mind is full of negative thoughts, that i should leave and find someone else better as this is not the marriage life i want to continue for the rest of my life.. if i can find someone else better and fill up the things my current one couldnt fulfill isnt it better?

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Sorry to hear that. I'm not in the situation but I always prepare myself that things won't be the same as before we have a baby. Especially we take care our baby all ourselves. I always make note to myself. No matter how busy and tired I am. I need to love myself too. Go for a quality bath. Putting a mask. Self reward myself. My little boy very sticky to me. And he will kick his daddy out from the bed😂. So, I need to take Care his feeling too (hubby) don't wan him feel neglected. And with hubby. Of course we will not as active in bed as before. So tired after work and taking care of baby. But I make sure looking decent (neat and smell good) , cook his favorite meals on weekends, have a small talk like how's ur day? And u know.. Blablabla.. , a hug and kiss before start of the day and sleep. To me marriage life is never get easy. It takes a lot of compromise, learning, patience, and most important remember to love yourself first. 😊😊😊😊 Communicate with your husband. And remember to have a happy mind and love yourself 🤗🤗🤗

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