I've caught my husband cheating, several times. I think I am done with giving him chances. Is there a way I can get custody of my 2 kids if I am not working and he's the sole bred-winner? Please advise!

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I am currently going thru a divorce bcoz my husband is having an affair. From my understanding, there is 1) custody and 2) care. Most cases that I know and heard are joint custody, where both parents have the authority to make decisions for the child. Unless your ex spouse doesn't want anything to do with his child, it is quite difficult to get sole custody. However, you can get 100% care for your kids. This is usually granted to however the kids are closest with. (Older kids have the choice to choose both parents) Of coz there are many things taken into consideration aside from finance. Do you have a place to live in? What about your working hours now that you have to start working to provide for your kids? Will there be anyone supervising your kids when you're at work? Do you have any other commitment that might take away your attention from your kids? Health issues? It's best to sort your life out as soon as possible so that you can have a better arguement in court.

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Cheating is an act that I believe most men can not do without because of their inconsideration and lack of strength and will to keep their pants up. As a woman and someone that happens to always commit myself to my relationships I have been heartbroken quite a few times by cheating partners but in my last relationship I devised that I had had enough and badly needed to catch my fiance in the act. I searched online and this name kept on coming up by ex clients who gave awesome recommendations so I immediately reached out to them and decided to give a try to get the heavy burden of suspicion off my mind. I never knew that a phone could be hacked without having physical access with it, all this hacker asked for were a few information on my partner and he showed me PROOF immediately he got into the phone. I immediately paid and got everything that my fiance had been hiding, he was having an affair with 2 other women which was sickening I must say.. I will be nice enough to give you this h

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Sole custody is not very common in Singapore. In most cases, joint custody is granted. The Court will take into account various factors and make the best decision for the child's welfare. It's not just about the finances. http://singaporelegaladvice.com/law-articles/what-are-singapores-laws-on-child-custody/

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How are u expecting to support the kids of u are not working? Get your priorities straight. Get a job. Figure how to balance job and kids. It’s definitely not easy but you now need to think of the journey with your kids without him and that’s the first step. Then with you being able to support yourself and the kids when in a job, you will definitely be mentally stronger and move on!

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A bit difficult coz you're not working and he is. Do consult your lawyer and get his advice.

Cheating is an act that I believe most men can not do without because of their inconsideration and lack of strength and will to keep their pants up. As a woman and someone that happens to always commit myself to my relationships I have been heartbroken quite a few times by cheating partners but in my last relationship I devised that I had had enough and badly needed to catch my fiance in the act. I searched online and this name kept on coming up by ex clients who gave awesome recommendations so I immediately reached out to them and decided to give a try to get the heavy burden of suspicion off my mind. I never knew that a phone could be hacked without having physical access with it, all this hacker asked for were a few information on my partner and he showed me PROOF immediately he got into the phone. I immediately paid and got everything that my fiance had been hiding, he was having an affair with 2 other women which was sickening I must say.. I will be nice enough to give you this hacker’s details to anyone who needs the services. [email protected]

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