Hi. This isnt totally a question i just wouldn't want to post something like this on any social media which i cant post anonymously or else they might judge my husband poorly right away . I just need to share. I got married to a man that I really love. The thing is i came from a little well off fam. I go to FEU, while my husband isn't that much. His mom is a sari sari store owner, and his dad is a rice farmer. I dont mind that at all, my family doesn't either. I live with them embracing the kind of life he can give to me and our 2 month old daughter. My sentiment is that, it is my birthday today... and we are in my sisters house weve been here for over a couple of weeks now because a relative just passed away, so we are almost running out of money, i know that he couldnt do anything here in my sisters house to earn money, because if we were home theres a possibility he could from vulcanizing and we have this billiard table. Its just that, he knows that my birthday is coming, and just told me that he's sorry if he hasnt got anything for me when its my first birthday together. Yes, we got in a relationship and i got pregnant and gave birth in less than a year, but he's been courting me since 2015. I just dont know... i feel sad, and i am actually crying in the bathroom because i dont know if its okay to tell him that i am hurt because he doesnt have anything for me for my birthday it sounds so childish but i dont know i really am so sad. This isnt quite a question i just need to share this out. Thank you.

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if your wish can be granted on your bday, will it be a healthy husband & kid or a brand new necklace ? alam mo kasi nasasaktan ka wala syang maibibigay kasi u expected material gifts... pero a long lasting peaceful relationship with your husband will be the best bday gift a loving wife could get. SKL

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ganyan din ako lagi ako nag tatampo pag birthday , pasko , valentine's day pag wala mabigay asawa ko sakin kasi alam ko naman na kung gugustuhin niya talaga kaya niya ko bigyan may work naman kasi asawa ko pero bihira talaga ko bigyan kaya sumasama loob ko pag sa kapatid or sarili niya nagagawan niya paraan.

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hi..don't be upset. maybe you always celebrate your bdays with full of foods and everything. but things happened when you have your family and life... for me being with him is enough specially at night when we make love. also don't forget that he supported you in your grieve during the wake.

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Hello sis!It's ok to tell to your husband that you're sad and the reason why.I feel the same way too when my husband did not give me something last mother's day,he did not surprise me neither.He just greeted me.After two days I told him my sentiment. Tell him what you feel,sis.Happy birthday!

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Well he can always give a gift in any form. May not be a material thing because just like you said, he didnt came from much. But he can put up some efforts that you will never forget. 😊 Be open to him but never expect a gift that he cant get you. 😊 Happy Birthday! 😊

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Then you should've married someone who's better. A man who can provide for all your NEEDS & WANTS. Btw. Before having his dick penetrate you, you knew all along that he's poor. Then why did you let him impregnate you? 🙄 ✌sorry. Just saying.

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Happy birthday! Be honest with your husband. Being with your family is a gift which materials cannot compare. seize the moment kung ano ang meron ka ngaun. Kung may naisin ka man, just pray for it. God will answer you in proper and perfect time.

I know the feeling sis. Yung naiintindihan mo naman na he has no resources now, but somehow you are also expecting that he would be resourceful at least to make your birthday special and to make you feel special. Hugs sis. Happy birthday, still!

To ease your emotions, my husband doesn’t mind my birthday. You’re lucky he told you beforehand. Mine, waley talaga. To add to my disappointment, ako pa dapat gagastos pra sa birthday ko. So, ease up momshie. You’re in good hands.

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