full month

Isit a must to have full month celebration for baby ? I dun wish to have this celebration at the end of the month but some uncle at his side said must have . It's annoying me . Wad gives him the rights to make decision even if he is the biggest uncle bla bla bla . Surname etc is just a word in the ic . It should be my decision the one who give birth to my baby . I said 100 days I'm still ok when I'm at least ready recovered and baby get his full 3 jabs . But some stupid chinese thing old fashion want it 1 month . I feel so stress every single day . I got no appetite to even eat . I'm stress everytime my in laws come n visit they keep talking so loud and chor lor infront of my baby . N when he is sleeping somemore . N when he is sleeping my husband want me to let them carry . Its disturbing my baby . Why are they so inconsiderate . It makes me scared everytime when I hear they are coming . My husband thinks I'm having depression . He thinks I think everyone is a threat to my baby . But tts not wad i think . I just feel ppl shud be more considerate when there is a baby here . I've talk things out with him but haiz . Am I being too over protective towards my baby or am I being wrong .

Feli

Preggers

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Hugs. Totally understand u. Mayb u shld have a communication with ur hubby. Let him understand u too. As for us baby is the most important. But to them they might thk we r too gan jeong

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Feli

Preggers

5y ago

Omg god bless you . I'm staying at my parents house . My mom is helping me with my confinement . My in laws come every once a week . I have no issues of them coming but everytime my mil come she talk so loud and so chor lor those kind . Than I told her to talk softer and more wen rou more gentle than she say my baby is a boy not a girl why must talk gentle . I said I dunwan him to grow up become so chor lor talk also chor lor . I want him to talk proper english proper chinese and not those baby talk like "nen nen " milk . Cause it happen to my daughter , the therapist said talk proper to them dun use baby language . Got to give them a habit and a good example for them to follow . And she keep saying my baby need to drink water cause milk heaty than the eye keep come out the yellow eye s*** thingy . But doctor advice not to give water so young . Tt I understand now he only few weeks old definitely I'm not giving him water . So I told my mil say that doctor said cannot give water and wha

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