Hi I'm trying to make my 4mths old sttn as i realised she keep drinking milk during wees hours so i try out if she really used to waking up n drink or she's really hungry. Day time she's drinking 130-140ml 6feeds 3hrly last milk will be at 11pm. Today will b my 1st day trying to pat her instead of giving her milk it works however she woke up every hr instead crying when i carried her she kept quiet eyes open throughout. Carried for at least 2hrs? Am i doing the right things

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She can only sleep through the night if she knows how to put herself to sleep and stay asleep. She needs to use her self soothing skills. At 4MO, they can sleep 6-7h for the longest stretch after a night feed at 10-11PM.

8y ago

Patting her to sleep is not allowing her to develop the skill of sleeping through self- soothing. You can gradually reduce the patting and don't pat her till she's fully asleep.