I'm sorry but no matter how frustrated or tired you are, how can you take it out on your baby? which is exactly what you are doing! using a cane on a 26 month old, or for any child??? its absolutely ridiculous!!!
there are many ways to teach discipline to a toddler and the word does not mean your child has to follow every single thing you say word for word. the one thing that you have to do is ask your partner to participate more. and take care of the baby so that you can rest and get your energy and mood back. a 2 year old child can very well understand the basics of discipline, but you need to teach it in an age appropriate way, by repeating things over and over, being patient, and teaching as a role model yourself.
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