I'm married for 2 years now. Hardly I stayed with my husband for an year, now I have a baby, I'm in my mom's place..In the past year, I have seen my husband sending text to his ex girl friend but it's not often..and there is no reply from her end..so he started asking about her to his friends..when I questioned about this to him, he replied saying he is just anxious to know if she is married or not..does it mean if he's still interested in her ? I'm worried a lot cos I couldn't guess what's there in his mind.. Please help me to figure out...

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Hey, You did not tell that why you did you not stay with your husband for the entire time, or was it that you came to your mom's place after you conceived! Anyway, whatever be the case, I think it is very important for husband and wife to have a bonding and a companionship. Especially after marriage it is very important to spend time with each other to know each other as much. Also, as you mentioned, I find it strange that why is he so eager to find out about his ex-girlfriend? Yes, that rings bell. You must talk to your husband and when both of you already haven't spend much time together and now you are at your mom's place, he has all the time to wander. All this I am saying considering the fact that he was already texting his ex in front of you. I think, you should go back to your husband soonest you get fine and spend time with your husband. Now that you have a baby, you will be required more to cater your time to the baby, but I would still thrust on the fact that keep a full time help, and spend time with your husband. Go out for movies together, cook for him, do activities that require both of you to be together. This will help in building a bond between you two. Once, he will start enjoying spending time with you, you will not have to worry about anyone between you two. Instead of worrying, spend as much time with each other, and build memories that he will cherish and would want to be with you forever.

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