Struggle of Being a Woman

I'm happy na we are having a baby girl. Super happy but I can't help but feel worry for my baby. Being a woman, I know and experienced it myself how hard it is. How u need to constantly be good at almost everything, the pressure to dress and look pretty almost all the time, the struggle of loving or liking someone that doesn't love u back, etc... Kung alam lang ng mga lalaki qng ganu kahirap maging babae. Haist, imagine we have period every month, we tend to have migraines due to stress, we have lots of things to consider and think about. Hindi madali maging babae and I'm worried for my baby girl. But somehow, I know that she will not have a hard time as I had with my life because I will be there for her. To let her know that it's OK to be yourself, it's OK na magkamali, it's OK to feel that pressure, it's OK to feel tired, because we can endure it kasi babae tayo. Ginawa tayo ni God, na matatag sa lahat ng bagay. ? Can't wait to finally meet my baby girl. ?

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Sakin nman I feel struggle and worry about my age and get aged. I am 35 this coming 26. And my baby girl is 9 mos.old. I have lots of worries for her and future because Im getting old and my baby girl still young. But, I know she is surrounded with good people specially both sides of parents. And I want to see her growing and to be there by her side! I love her the most and shes the gift from God to us. I want to be there when she gets married in the future. I am praying that we will be together and seeing her stable is what Im praying for.

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5y ago

You too mamshie! We will all do fine. Our kids will all be fine. 🙂First time man o hindi, we will all be a good mom. We may not be perfect at times,pero we know,gagawin natin lahat para sa anak natin. Mapuno lang natin sila ng pagmamahal at alaga, magiging okay sila. Godbless you too and your family as well 😊

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Nasa pagpapalaki yan, At environment ng bata. Wag masyadong sexist. In our family kasi; 11 kami magkakapatid. 10girls 1boy. And you know what, yung lalake pa yung walang kwenta. All of us have our own houses, cars and businesses. Yung boy 36 years old na nakatira pa rin sa basement ng mommy ko kasama family niya. Pinapakain pa rin naming 10. 🤷‍♀️💪♀️

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Ako din , by heart gusto ko babae pero dami ko worries na what if pag lake nya masaktan din sya tulad ko what if may mga maling tao sya na masamahan na di ko macocontrol . Kaya sabe ko sana baby boy anak ko pero it came to my ultrasound na baby girl sya . Inaccept ko nalang and ill make sure na mapprotektahan ko sya paglake

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Hindi talaga maiiwasan mag worry para sa baby girl natin mommy kasi sa panahon ba naman natin ngayun na uso ang child abuse or rape, e pag pray lang natin yung mga anak natin na malayo sila sa kapahamakan at e guide sila ni papa god at buhayin pa tayo ng matagal para ma alagaan sila.

We have our fears for our children. And its natural. Cos we care about our children's future. But i believe, a strong mother,will raise a strong woman. Lagi mo tandaan yan. Nasa supporta at pag nurture sa bata yan sa pagpapalaki niya sa anak niya.

Thats one of my biggest worries. Ngaun pa lang dami ko ng iniisip like i will not force her to have a "kiss mentality" kiss tito, kiss tita etc, etc. I don't want her to hear dapat ganito ganyan. Parang gusti ko na lang siya ilayo sa lahat 😂