Im going crazy soon! LO is 15mo It's definitely good to have parents that dote and willing to take care LO. However i cant agree to their doings and sayings. Just because they think that they are elders so they are always right. Everything LO wants, they give in. They even gave nail buffer for LO to "play" and LO jus puts anything into the mouth. When i attempt to exchange with LO, LO cried like nobody biz and here comes the angel grandma. "Grandma sayang, ok give u give u" and immediately i was given the death stare and scoldings for making LO cry. Wth is this! What is right and what is wrong shouldnt we teach the kids properly? If nt, hw do they grow up being properly behaved? Parents kept scolding tt cannot scold the kids, cos they are still young. I totally cannot agree by giving in everything to him! Mum can shout and scold LO and made LO cried till voice hoarse yet telling me that i didnt teach LO properly and he is my son and he must be inherit my bad characters. And when i wanna be firm with LO, i gt scolded or being sarcastic for nothing by my parents being harsh on my LO and dono hw to behave like a parent!

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grandparents tend to be protective. for me, if there can be other arrangements, go with it. if you have to seek their help, some things have to close one eye. but for stuff like for instance, nail buffer in mouth, what i did for similar situation is, i stop the action, i carry my LO in room. i still talk to her in simple form, let her cry and calm down. do a review again. she was like less than 1yo. she can understand me. then i talked to her grandparents on why i disallowed as it is a hazard plus unhygienic. i was firm in my position except that i take care of her myself mostly. perhaps this is the thing which is different from u. but.. be firm. express ur view. u r still the parent afterall. if not, arrange for alternate

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Home Random Talk im going crazy soon lo 15mo definitely good have parents that dote willing take care lo however i cant agree their doings sayings because think that elders always right everything lo wants give in gave nail buffer lo play lo jus puts anything into mouth when i attempt exchange with lo lo cried like nobody biz comes angel grandma grandma sayang ok give give immediately i was given death stare scoldings making lo cry wth what right what wrong