I'm feeling emotional these few days cos I'll be returning to work next week after my maternity and no pay leave. Hubby said it will be tight on family financial if I continue to go on no pay leave .. So it is even more impossible for me to quit my job to be a SAHM . We are sending our Lo to infant care .. N I'm already feeling the separation anxiety :( I wish to take care of my baby by myself too but hubby thinks it is too tight financially . We also have another elder child (5 years old), so many mouths to feed .. Sigh.. Been feeling depressed too .. Anybody in similar situation as me ? How can I feel better ? :(

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Don't worry as time goes by, you will slowly get used to it. Ur elder child also go ifc? If yes, i believe you can get through this period again. It's also good ways that we will not be very serious separate anxiety, so i can go date with my husband once in awhile. My separate anxiety is so strong, i always feel guilty without bringing any of them along anywhere, if i go out, after my girl go school, i feel school is a better place for her to learn more things. I feel happier when she feel more things in school too.

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Home Baby im feeling emotional these few days cos ill returning work next week after maternity pay leave hubby said tight family financial if i continue go pay leave more impossible quit job sahm sending lo infant care n im already feeling separation anxiety i wish take care baby myself too but hubby thinks too tight financially have another elder child 5 years old many mouths feed sigh been feeling depressed too anybody in similar situati