I'm about to get married and my fiance and I have not talked about having children. I worry about starting this conversation with him - I want many babies and he seems disinterested! How should I do this?

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You can ask him of his plan why he wants to marry you. Then tell him of your views that you wanted a family and not just a partnership.

There's nothing wrong in opening that matter up. It's part of the marriage journey. Planning everything not only properties.

Talk to him before you get married. If your futures arent aligned, wouldn't you want to know first?

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talk to him directly, ask what he wants, tell what you want, try to converge at a point.

When you are shopping and if you pass by a baby shop, throw the question

As a guy, i would suggest just talk openly. Guys are simple

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Just start a talk with him. He can't read your mind.

Poke hole in condom... then blame the company... :P

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Please please please talk about it before marriage!