I'm 4 weeks pregnant and I don't want the baby. What should I do?

At this moment in time, your judgment may be clouded by your emotions (due to changes in your hormones). Take some time out and sit down with someone you can trust, or a counselor who can help you stay focus and objective. Think about the considerations you may have and what’s causing you to be apprehensive about the pregnancy. Here’s an article on some common concerns that a woman may have: http://sg.theasianparent.com/coping-with-an-unexpected-pregnancy/ Consider your options. If you are considering terminating the pregnancy, find out about the process and what are the potential risks and conerns. http://sg.theasianparent.com/abortion_in_singapore/ http://www.aware.org.sg/abortion/ Most importantly, speak to someone. You can contact Pregnancy Crisis Service (PCS) for a range of services (including counseling, pregnancy tests, financial planning, collaborations with schools, collaborations with adoption agencies, legal advice etc) to gather more information before making any decision. http://pregnancycrisis.sg/

I agree with what Stephanie wrote. Take some time to think it through and try to not let your emotions overwhelm you. Rash decisions are caused by fear so it's really important to give yourself time to let the fear subside before doing anything. Perhaps writing down your feelings or even a pros-cons list about the pregnancy can help? Maybe seeing the situation written down will bring some clarity amidst the confusion. Talk it out -- to a trusted friend or like what Stephanie mentioned, a counselor, someone who cares about you, someone who will listen and not judge. And when you’re ready, map out a possible plan of action for whatever decision you choose to make.

First, do talk to your family and your husband/boyfriend. Weigh the pros and cons of bringing up the baby. If your main concern is money, let me tell you that a baby can be safely delivered for less than $2,000 if you go through the subsidised route. - Gynae & delivery: <$2k with subsidy - Milk: Breastmilk - Diapers: Cloth diapers/affordable & absorbent brands (Onwards, KCA, Goo.N etc) - Clothes & Toys: Hand me downs Call these helplines before you decide. AWARE http://www.aware.org.sg/abortion/ Pregnancy Crisis pregnancycrisis.sg TOUCH Adoption Services http://adoption.tcs.org.sg/services_counselling.html

I think it's best for you to calm down and rationalize first. Why don't you want your own child? Not ready? Finances? No family support? Single and not married? Too young? If above are your reasons, I can tell you that I once was in your situation and I changed my mind the moment I heard her heartbeat and never once have I regretted my decision. No one out there should be dictating what you should or should not do with the pregnancy, afterall it is your own decision but whatever choice you make, sit and think, would you ever look back and ask yourself what if?

lol trust me once you start connecting with what's growing inside of you yes you will want it just be brave your probably having mommy fears but please remember some people can't have children and whose to say that it can be your miracle baby so I'm rooting for a healthy pregnancy for you or if your super sure like really deep down sure I hope you look into the best adoption services and find a family that does what a precious gift.

Finding out is always overwhelming. But please talk to someone before you make any decisions. This is coming from someone who felt with infertility I'm 19 weeks now with baby #2 and it took me 7 years just to get pregnant with this second child. My husband had cancer right after our first so took us forever just to get where we are. So know child can change your life and come in at the worst points sometimes for the best reasons

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I suggest you go for some counselling first before deciding if you want to keep the baby. They're precious and such a joy to have. Last resort is to find a gynaecologist that does pregnancy termination.

What is your main reason to abort the baby? There are always solutions available instead of choosing not to want the baby. You should sit down and discuss with your partner on the decision.

Where do you live? If its in Indonesia or malaysia, if you want, you can opt the adoption as well. I do want to adopt if you want to go the all pregnancy for 9 months