I'm stress and depressed

I'm 23 weeks + 1 day pregnant. With a boy and a girl. I sometimes feels like need to be appreciated even though it's my duty as a wife and daughter in law in this house. I try to pleased everyone even though no one care or anything. But I don't everyone to say thank you to me. I just want my husband to appreciated my efforts when I do things while pregnant his twins. But he doesnt even care or anything. He say it's my duty as a wife. And daughter in law. Is it so wrong for me to feel appreciated even though it's my duty as a wife?

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Super Mum

The longing to be appreciated is perfectly normal. I actually pity your husband and MIL for not knowing basic kindness or knowing how to show love. Please don’t try to please them only. Please yourself too. Do things that make you happy. And I know I’m a stranger, but I’m proud of you for carrying your little ones, and I believe you will make a wonderful mama for the both of them! 🥰

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