If your spouse keeps telling you every time you have a terrible fight "Maghiwalay na nga lang tayo!" Will you have second thoughts of considering what he's saying?

It depends on how often and the manner he says it. Meron kasing iba na dinadaan sa ganun but deep inside, they already have plans of leaving the relationship. You better ask your spouse frankly what he really wants whenever he tells you that para hindi kayo nagpapakiramdaman lang. For me, hindi lang bugso ng damdamin all the time ang nagttrigger ng paghahamon ng hiwalayan.